I knew Daughter had trashed the guest room, but I had no idea how bad it was until I actually got in there today. There were three of us working for three hours, and we're not done. One of her "friends" has been giving her candy. Big bags of fruit chews and smarties and all sorts of things that are pure sugar. As always, we found numerous piles where she had just dumped bags out on the floor. She had thrown out a number of my pictures, so I had to go through the trash she had collected in one of her attempts to clean up the room.
We did make progress. Personal Assistant will be back Wednesday evening, and hopefully we'll be able to finish it that day. PA gave her strict orders-- she's not to trash it and she is to pick up the rest of her hair stuff that's spread all over the floor and organize it. Daughter cleaned her room today-- and has been busy doing laundry. She has at least 4 loads of urine soaked linens. I know why her room has smelled so bad-- she hasn't been doing all the linens on a daily basis.
I dread the thought of what she will do to our new home. I've decided she will sleep on an air mattress until she stops wetting the bed. I'm not moving her mattress, and I don't want to give her another one to ruin.
Yesterday I was feeling good about the progress we were making. Today, I'm a little less optimistic. What doesn't get sorted here will be packed by the movers and sorted after we move or maybe the next time we move....