Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Secretary and Daughter

Yesterday Secretary had a biopsy on her lymph nodes. Today she is having knee surgery. She plans to be in the office on Thursday, though I've told her that she should stay home. The good news is that the surgeon told her husband that he doesn't think she has cancer-- he thinks her lymph nodes are swollen due to infection.
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Daughter is unloading the dishwasher right now, and insisting she doesn't have enough time to complete it. The bus won't be here for at least 10 minutes and we have a small portable dishwasher. I could have it done in about 2 minutes, but she might not have time. She moves very slowly.
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She didn't wet the bed last night, and woke up in a chipper mood. She announced that if there is work today she will do it. Therapist told her she couldn't call me, so we'll see how she does with that. I'm going to spend a bit of time in the office this morning before I head south for a meeting. The meeting will be church related, not about Daughter. That will be a welcome change.
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I'm relieved that the Flasher situation is now completely Daughter's responsibility. I don't want to know what's going on with the relationship anymore. It's not my problem. The challenge will to be to make sure that I continue to view it as her problem, and don't allow her to suck me in.

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