I received an email from Daughter's house manager yesterday evening. She asked me to talk to Daughter, who was being rude and abusive with the staff. I told her I would, but didn't know that it would do much good. I told her I had been on the receiving end many times, and was sorry staff was experiencing it now. I didn't add that I am exceedingly grateful that I'm no longer the target.
Monday we have a meeting about Daughter beginning at a workshop one day a week. I think the anxiety over the upcoming move may be behind her current attitude. Hopefully she will settle down once she gets started.