I took Daughter to see Therapist this afternoon. I explained to Therapist about New Guy, and asked her to help Daughter with setting boundaries on what is appropriate and inappropriate physical contact.
It wasn't necessary, and Daughter didn't see the point of discussing it. She has informed New Guy that they can be friends, but until he works out the paternity issues, she won't date him. She is not interested in getting in the middle of his mess. She isn't willing to be a stepmother, and he's on his own with child support.
There are times when her wisdom and maturity amaze me. There's still some rapid cycling going on, but her mood is leveling out nicely.