I think lying is the RAD residue I hate most. Daughter is such an accomplished liar that I can't tell when she is lying. It makes it impossible to believe anything she tells me.
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I had a call from Case Manager this afternoon.
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Yesterday Daughter ordered a large pizza in for lunch for all her friends. I have no idea where she got the money. She told staff she was celebrating. She took lunch in with her, but apparently threw it away and ate the pizza.
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There hasn't been any work in at the workshop. The only work Daughter has had has been cleaning an apartment building one hour a week. She told staff she didn't want to go today, and that she didn't need the money because she had a job outside of the workshop that was paying her lots of money.
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When she got home I asked her how the cleaning had gone today. She said it had gone well, and she'd done bathrooms and floors today.
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She's been pouting since she got home. I asked if there was anything she wanted to tell me, and she insists there isn't. She suspects, though, that I know something. She will continue to deny everything, of course. Case Manager asked that I not tell Daughter what I know.
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I have not been able to find out anything about someone to take her to the area track meet tomorrow. Right now, I don't want to be around her, so I want her to go to that track meet without me. If there isn't someone to take her, I then will have to talk to the coach and figure out if I can get her there and back before the memorial service I have tomorrow, or if I even want to try....
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It's going to be a long evening. Secretary's foster sons are coming to town to play games with her. She, of course, wants nothing to do with that. She'd prefer to pout.
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So where'd she get the money for the pizza? Is there any chance she could have earned it somehow? The mind boggles.
She may have had some money left from what I gave her a week ago. It was about $40 from 2 paychecks and some money she'd earned doing some chores for me. She bought a clearance dress for less than $10, and a mother's day gift. I don't know how much the pizza cost or how much she spent for mother's day.
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I am a single mom who has a RAD kid too. Mine is a bit younger than yours, but reading through your blog for a while I feel some of your struggle. The lying is one of the hardest things for me too.
The blogring is a fun thing. Glad you are adding in your story.
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