Blood Sugars, Sigh

Daughter's blood sugars were running high in the hospital, and I complained that they were dangerous and they weren't giving her enough insulin. Now she's home, and I'm controlling her insulin, and her blood sugars are even higher. I increased her Lantus, which is her long acting insulin she takes once a day. Her blood sugars are still high. Today I asked her what she'd been into overnight.

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"Nothing!"

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"Your blood sugars have been running high, and if you haven't been into anything, I should really increase your Lantus. If you have been into something, that could be very dangerous. Should I increase your Lantus?"

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"Wait."

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"I ordered a door alarm for your bedroom, and it will arrive Wednesday. Once I put that on your door, are your blood sugars going to be lower in the morning?"

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"Yes."

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"What have you been into?"

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"Nothing!"

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"You just told me your blood sugars will be lower with the door alarm. Why will they been lower? Have you been into milk during the night."

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"Yes."

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"Thank you for telling me the truth."

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This just gets so frustrating. She wants more independence, but I feel like I should keep her in my line of vision 24 hours a day if I want to keep her safe. I received no discharge instructions for her, but she says Psychiatrist told her she could go back to controlling her own insulin, but she told Psychiatrist she didn't want to.

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I hate this disease!