It has been a busy time, which seems to be an ongoing refrain. We just lost another member to cancer shortly after diagnosis. We've had 3 healthy, active men go through this this year, and it's taking a toll on the congregation. Today's funeral was another big one-- as in almost 300 people. Our guys were going downstairs for extra chairs as the sanctuary filled up. I really liked this man. He and his wife brought me home and spent the night with me after my second arm surgery. We also had dinner and went to shows with them when we were on vacation, as they had a cottage they had built not too far away. His family was wonderful to work with. I was there when he died. His wife had asked me where she thought I should take him for hospice care, and I suggested they take him home, so they did. I had gone over to visit, and had a prayer with all of them around his bed. His wife took me downstairs to show me something, and his breathing changed. We went back upstairs, and his wife and all of his children stood around his bed as he drew his last breath. He had told me last week that he was at peace, and we could see it in the way he died.
Tomorrow is our bazaar, so that complicated things. We had to call all the vendors to let them know they wouldn't be able to set up until this evening. Administrative Assistant and I were both pretty much fried when we finally left the church today. While our folks had done a wonderful job taking care of many of the necessities, Daughter, AA, and I emptied trash and replenished supplies in all the bathrooms. We ran the vacuum to get rid of leaves and mud. Of course, we had to bring up the vacuum cleaner from the basement, as we wait for a new belt for the upstairs one. We all skipped bazaar set-up this evening. We left that in good hands.
We have reduced Daughter's new anti psychotic, and she is doing better in terms of side effects. She is no longer having as much trouble with tremors, back pain, and bed wetting. However, she is back to hearing the voices and having disturbing thoughts. I suspect we'll have to look at other alternatives. Her house continues to struggle with staff issues. The newest live-in staff member is not recording her blood sugars and insulin, which makes it harder for me to manage her diabetes. She is also smoking in her bedroom, which isn't allowed, and since her bedroom is right below Daughter's, Daughter gets the smoke up in her room, and has complained to Home Owner. From the sounds of things, I don't think this staff member will last very long. Of course, with each staff change, it is harder for Daughter to trust.
I had told AA to come in later today, as she came back to the church last night to shut things down and lock up after the visitation. Daughter and I arrived a little after 8, and she was there at her normal time of 9. She said she figured she'd better get to the church so she could keep me together. I told her that was probably wise. Actually, the service went very well. The sister-in-law was impressed with my ministry the day he died. Today she was very happy with the service. She expected it to be hard, but thought I had said exactly what the needed to hear. That's the kind of thing I love to hear.
Last week we had celebrated the church's anniversary. The man we buried today was a charter member. Daughter wanted to go to the funeral today, so she spent the night with me last night and will be with me through Sunday. She was a good helper today.
AA found time today to start on the bulletin for next Sunday. She emailed it to me. When I opened it, it said, "Do not look at this until Monday afternoon!!!!!!" I had told her I thought I'd take Monday morning off. Monday is her normal day off. My normal day off is Friday, but obviously that didn't work today. Tomorrow I will be at the church much of the day for the bazaar, so it will be nice to sleep in Monday morning.
Next Friday night is our children's ministry, so I won't get all of that day off, either. That's the way it is sometimes in ministry. Fortunately, I continue to love what I'm doing.
